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When someone you love dies and you are responsible for organising the funeral or memorial service, it’s not surprising to feel overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted and unsure where to start.
You don’t need to feel that you have to do all that organising on your own.
As an experienced, dedicated and caring Funeral Celebrant, I'll support you right from the start to make one of your hardest days a little easier.
You'll have help from me with everything from writing the eulogy, music choices, tributes, photo slideshows, video tributes and special inclusions. I'll provide structure for the service and co-ordinate everything so it all runs smoothly.
When we meet, I shall listen intently, ask lots of questions and spend plenty of time getting to know your loved one and your family, so I can create and deliver a ceremony which truly reflects them – their personality, values and specific wishes.
Although the day itself can be intense and sad, it can also be comforting and affirming sharing and hearing about your loved one’s life.
Each service is different because each person is different. What really matters is that the funeral captures the essence of your loved one.
There will be tears, hugs and many tender smiles on the day as we say farewell to your loved one with gratitude, respect and much love.
ABOUT ME
Being a funeral celebrant is a challenging job. It comes with huge responsibility coupled with enormous satisfaction.
I love it.
“We could not have done this without you,” is the most precious of compliments I can hear from the family and friends.
I’ve been a registered Marriage Celebrant for fifteen years. Ten years ago I conducted my first funeral for a young man whose wedding I had officiated just two years before. Celebrating with his family on one of their happiest days, and then helping them through one of their saddest days was both heart-breaking and incredibly fulfilling for me.
I feel deeply honoured that families trust me with their feelings, their memories, their pain, their tears. I'm deeply touched by their openness and bravery.
We usually have a little cry together, a much needed laugh at the funny stories and drink lots of tea !
There is often not much time to prepare for a funeral or memorial, but when we meet to gather all the information, I shall create a safe and supportive space where everyone can speak freely, have their input valued and feel heard.
I take great care in weaving the stories of your loved one together.
It is a privilege to be entrusted with helping you farewell them.
You can rest assured, that I will be there for you every step of the way.
SERVICES
With nearly a decade of experience as a Funeral Celebrant in Melbourne, I can offer a wealth of expertise and suggestions if you find yourself needing to organise :
· a Funeral service with a Burial or Cremation
· Graveside service
· Memorial service
· Interment/Scattering of ashes
· Bi-lingual service – incorporating English and Italian or French
There is no right or wrong way when it comes to how you would like the service to unfold and what you would like to include. We can be as creative or as traditional as you think will best suit your loved one.
For memorials, I can suggest many interesting venues and locations in Melbourne where a service could be conducted, as well as my network of trusted contacts and suppliers who will help make it all happen.
All cultures, nationalities, persuasions, non/religious/spiritual backgrounds are welcomed and respected and I’d love to incorporate any significant traditions or requests you may have into the ceremony.
SERVICES IN OTHER LANGUAGES
I am one of Melbourne’s few multi-lingual funeral celebrants - Italian, French, Maltese and English.
I have conducted many services where the family have asked me if I could acknowledge a loved one’s cultural heritage by presenting a poem, prayers, family tributes, letters or quotes in Italian/French, for the benefit of their older family members or family overseas who may be watching via live stream.
I love being able to do that for my families.
CONTACT ME
I’d love to hear from you.
Get in touch anytime.
If you are not up to talking yet, do drop me line by email or fill in the form and I’ll get back to you super fast.
I’m based in Preston and conduct services all over Melbourne and surrounding areas.
email: rita@funeralcelebrantmelbourne.net
Mobile: 0412 420 692